Since it's not recommended to run Telescope in production, how can you identify slow requests there?
The first thing I'd set up is a slow query log. That link is to the MySQL docs, but there's a similar concept in PostgreSQL as well. With this option enabled, you can set a threshold where any query that takes longer will be logged. I'd recommend starting with 3 seconds and ratcheting it down 250ms at a time from there. You can then periodically review the logs to identify queries that might be missing an index, or in need of some other optimizations. These logs will show the date/time, SQL statement, and how long it ran, but it won't have any context of your Laravel application.
To get more rich context of the entire request that led to the slow query, I recommend Sentry. In addition to exception tracking, it also has a Performance module which exposes slow requests (whether database related or not) and even surfaces N+1 issues that slip through to production. It's not free, but I find it well worth the cost.
I'd love to hear if you have any other things you do to watch performance in your production environment.
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Joel
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